100 Thing Challenge

June 30, 2009

100 Thing Challenge List Update

A very quick post to mention a few adjustments to my 100 Thing Challenge list.

I am going to take the Blue Snowball microphone off of my list. It is packed up and in a box in the closet. My wife has asked me not to sell it on Craigslist for $100 (make me an offer) and so I am respecting her wish and her hope that some day we will indeed produce the Schooled In Marriage podcast, which I'd like to do as well. But (make me an offer) I ain't counting the mic anymore.

I did acquire a surfboard. It is lightly used. A 7' 8" TDK. It seems like a nice board. I don't really know, since I don't surf, yet. But since my job change a year ago, my morning runs have been replaced with a morning commute (much to the chagrin of my dog). Fortunately I work about 30 seconds from Sunset Cliffs, a very nice surf spot here in San Diego. So I'm taking up surfing. To stay in shape and to enjoy the outdoors. After putting out the feelers for borrowing a board for a while, it became clear that the best thing to do is get one of my own. The shop threw in a leash, which one person tells me should not be counted as a separate thing, since you pretty much need a leash. But I'm going to count it separate anyway. Why not? It will force me to purge even more, which I hope to do this week.

The challenge of learning to surf late in life also seems like a process that might engender some interesting life lessons. I'll keep you posted.

June 11, 2009

The Boat Is Back, The Beard Is Trimmed

These days I mostly react to stress much the same way I always have: escapism. This time, though, I tried something new. I grew a beard.

It seemed like a perfectly legitimate middle-aged thing to do. It is much cheaper than buying a classic car. I do not know how to drive a motorcycle, so getting into suburban-dwelling-old-man Harley culture is out of the question, too. Yet something had to give. So I let my whiskers go.

Then I noticed the boat. Not a specific boat. Well sort of. I mean, there are a few specific boats that I have noticed. The point is that I began to notice that I, beard and all, began to notice boats.

Now quickly, in my defense, I have to say that I am one fine boat captain. Well, at least I can say that I am an impressive remote controlled amusement park tug boat captain. Get me on the rudder of one of those tugs, and I’ll navigate it through the tunnel and dock it in all the slips before the two-dollar-token fuel runs dry. The most trouble I have piloting a remote controlled tug at SeaWorld or Legoland is the inevitable snotty pre-teen boy who notices what I’m up to and takes it upon himself to ram his tug into mine. It creates more of a hassle than anything else, and sometimes I have to back my boat into a slip, bumping the little twerp’s tug away until I’m safe. I never make eye contact with those brats. Always, I let my tug do the talking.

So it’s not like I’m not cut out for open ocean travel. It is in my DNA. Sure I got seasick on a cruise ship, once. (Yes, I know Sweetheart, I remember it was on the night of the Baked Alaska.) And I puked on a deep sea fishing boat, once. That is only two times in dozens of voyages. Though, none of them have been recent. Which has got me wondering, What happened? How did it turn out that growing up fishing in the ocean on a pretty regular basis has turned into browsing used boats on Craigslist?

Is it just escapism? Maybe, despite the grandest efforts of my 100 Thing Challenge, I’ll always list mallward, blown and tossed by the dream of buying my way out of life’s discomforts. Or maybe...now I’m not trying to justify anything here, this is a genuine inquiry...maybe there has been a gaping dysfunction in my life over the past ten years that I’ve spent off the water. Landlubber or not, perhaps the 100 Thing Challenge has helped me uncover something that I’ve been missing; something that’s been blocked from my sight by all the stuff I’ve owned, and all the time I’ve spent buying it.

It is probably more complicated than that. Ever been on a deep sea fishing boat? Yeah, not exactly a zen-like crowd of life-happy humans. Even so, I’m not willing to write off this recurring boat theme so easily this time. Not as easily as I dismissed the beard, anyway. It’s trimmed into a five o’clock shadow that will, soon enough, get shaved.

Perhaps I should start all over.

June 08, 2009

The Tense Life of Simplicity

In the June 7, 2009 online New York Times, Pico Iyer has a very nice reflection, “The Joy of Less,” on living a simple life.

Reflecting on his days climbing the corporate ladder he says, “I remember how, in the corporate world, I always knew there was some higher position I could attain, which meant that, like Zeno’s arrow, I was guaranteed never to arrive and always to remain dissatisfied.” Testimonies like Iyer’s ought to be integrated into our education system, with its ROI orientation. More and more people are understanding that their investment of money and time, and the stuff they buy to prove how much money they have and to show the time they’ve spent making it, returns only dissatisfaction.

Even though Iyer’s privileged lifestyle (how many of us simplifiers downsize to an apartment in Japan, but still fly back to the U.S. every few months?) is not a realistic model, his reflections are sound. In fact, perhaps his socio-economic position makes his testimony all the more fascinating. The dream life didn’t fulfill even someone like him.

Two lines from Iyer’s reflection caught my interest, then gave me pause, as if they were a sweet candy that, even after going down, kept my mouth feeling too sticky. He says, “Living in the future tense never did that [offer satisfaction] for me.” The rat race wasn’t worth the anticipation of the cheese, which he never arrived at while navigating the American Dream maze. Point well taken.

Then he ends his article with, “Now that I’m there [the simple life in Japan], I find that I almost never think of [the hectic life] of Rockerfeller Center or Park Avenue at all.” True enough. Those who simplify their lives often find how easy it is once the transition is done. They often do not miss their old, frantic life of keeping up with the Jones.

It’s subtle, but I’m not sure I like his use of tenses. For humans, living in the present is not adequate. (I believe that no matter what Caesar Millan says, animals don’t only live in the present either.) Without the past tense, we have not history and too easily lose our place in the hear and now. Without the future tense, we have no hope and often settle for an empty lifestyle.

Simple living done well, is an excellent story. One written using all the tenses, and all the plot tension that the tenses bring, into our lives.

June 06, 2009

6 Month Lesson #3 - Moving in Place

In ways the 100 Thing Challenge is an attempt to figure out my restlessness, especially why my wandering so often involves consumption. I don’t just get fidgety, pick up my things, and move on. I fidget, pick up, buy something else, and move.

Reading history or cultural trends, I could interpret my restlessness-consumerism-mix as an effect of growing up in the West (i.e. the “frontier”) or as an effect of the nurturing love of baby boomer parents. A strong argument could be made that, taken together, those two forces, which have impacted me considerably, were the cause that made my character inevitable.

But just this morning I was lecturing my daughter about how I vehemently resist determinism. Possibility is always present for us human beings. Not every possibility. Not necessarily the most comfortable or most beneficial possibility. But always the possibility to not be dragged through what we’d rightfully like to avoid.

Call me wild-brained, but I believe I’m justified in wanting to steer clear of a restless life that goes nowhere.

I am not quite ready to give up my fidgetiness. So I need to think of a solution. How to journey without going nowhere. Today the zen-like phrase moving in place came to my mind.

Grow. Progress. Journey. Mature. Move...without losing our place.

I’ll need to consider this possibility more.

The point, I suppose, of this 6-month reflection on the 100 Thing Challenge, is that in my life consumerism has often been an accomplice to my feelings of restlessness. It will offer me sympathy, take my hand, and lead me nowhere, though with more stuff in tow. I like the idea of movement. More and more, I long for settlement.

Is there fundamental incongruity between these two forces? Or can they be harmonized?

June 03, 2009

100 Thing Challenge Book Excerpts

So I'm diving in. Jumping headlong. Going for broke. Or, put another way, I'm going to post some short excerpts from my 100 Thing Challenge book drafts on the Facebook 100 Thing Challenge page.

The first excerpt is kind of a trial run, an few paragraphs from a very early draft of the introduction.

June 02, 2009

Two Items Purged and Considering One New Thing

Today on the way into work I dropped a shirt and a sweater off at the Goodwill. Nothing earth shattering, but I am down to 88 things as a result.

Also, I'm considering getting a wetsuit. Last year I had some fun with the kids in the ocean. And I'm considering getting my daughter a boogie board for her birthday. And I work about two thousand feet from the ocean. So there seems to be some justification. Not sure, though.

June 01, 2009

Pointing Fingers

Sometimes you just have to point out what's wrong. Anyone familiar with my blog, knows that I am not bashful about my opinions regarding what appears to be right and wrong with American-style consumerism.

More and more, though, I am finding that the 100 Thing Challenge is less about pointing fingers and more about challenging myself to be

humble and excellent

in all that I do, including my own consumer behavior. Not that I'll shut my trap about the foolishness of consumerism in our culture. But I am thinking a lot about my own past, present, and future as a result of the 100 Thing Challenge.

May 27, 2009

Sharing at the DoJustice Network Meeting in San Diego - Why Am I Doing the 100 Thing Challenge?

I will be sharing a bit about the 100 Thing Challenge at the DoJustice Network meeting in San Diego this Friday. It would be great to see you there, if you can make it.

Often I write down my thoughts in order to organize them for a discussion or presentation. When the time comes to speak, I do not always say exactly what I've written down. So I thought I'd share the writing part here. This one summary of what has motivated me to do the 100 Thing Challenge.

I have gained some notoriety because of a personal project of mine, the 100 Thing Challenge. I am living one year of my life with only 100 personal possessions. The reason I am doing this is largely self-examination. If that were not rationale enough to turn away practical-minded cynics, also I have a few more than exactly 100 things, because I am counting my library of books as one item, and also I count my underwear, socks, and under shirts as groups, thus they are a total of three items on my list. Moreover, I have not banished myself to the streets where I would have no access to our couch or dining room table or other household items, which I do not count as personal possessions.

Instead of flashy or austere, the 100 Thing Challenge might be viewed by some critics as mediocre. It is a very run-of-the-mill experiment. A lot like most of our lives, which is hard for us to admit. But also unlike American-style consumerism, which is hard for us to resist.

When we combine the reality that most people are not celebrities or geniuses or rich or sophisticated with the consumer behavior that acts as if we are all of those things, then we get the confusion of American-style consumerism and the failed social structures it has encouraged us to create. Structures that damage our world, ourselves, and those around us. Structures like, “The customer is always right.” Or like, “Sometimes you just have to pamper yourself,” which in our dominant culture really means, “Always you are entitled to whatever you desire.”

Well, I am just an average person. Yet sometimes I have listened to the siren-craft of branding consultants and imagined myself to be someone very special. And I have sometimes behaved and consumed as if that were true, as if I were a celebrity and a genius and rich and sophisticated. Which is another way of saying that I have worn certain clothing brands and expected the world to listen to all I think and gotten myself into debt and made a fool of myself.

Then also, I have been a critic of American-style consumerism. I have become indignant with the cheapness of Wal-Mart and Costco, whose prices are slashed on the backs of labor, manufacturers, and suppliers. Equally, I have become offended by the sumptuousness of Nordstrom and Banana Republic, whose expense is visible on strapless prom dresses, thousand-dollar shoes, and always-changing fashions that demand always-purchasing humans.

But I have shopped at all those places. (Except Wal-Mart, yuck!) Even in the midst of my 100 Thing Challenge, I have ducked into a Banana Republic store to browse the sale racks, but sneak peeks at the full-priced extravagance. Perhaps American-style consumerism has been and in many ways still is my problem.

I just do not see any solution to any problem until I am willing to ask myself and ask others to honestly assess me, “Am I the one responsible for this?”

The 100 Thing Challenge is many things. I have some hopes and fears for what I might accomplish before it is all done. At its most fundamental level, though, the 100 Thing Challenge is an attempt to answer the question about my role in American-style consumerism.

May 26, 2009

100 Thing Challenge stuff list update - only 89 things?

So over the last week I did some inventory work. Turns out that I only have 89 things! Moreover, two things (my lame Gap sweater and my wrinkly Old Navy button-down shirt) are in a purge pile. Well, but I'll probably have to replace them. And I guess I should replace that one pair of slacks. Even so, I am happy to be in the low 90s, assuming I make those purchases.

Checkout the updated 100 Thing Challenge stuff list

Also, once again, I am adding a shameless plug for the new 100 Thing Challenge Facebook Page. Thanks to everyone who has become a fan. Would love to see more fans join. Even more, it would be great to have you all participate with links, notes, comments, or whatever.

May 21, 2009

New 100 Thing Challenge Website

Sort of.

Rather than pouring time or money or both into designing and launching a new 100 Thing Challenge website, I've decided to make use of Facebook Pages. For now. And so...introducing the

New 100 Thing Challenge Facebook Page

(Hint: Become a fan please!)

As best as I can tell, I have opened it up so that you all can post on the wall and share links and photos and video.

My plan is to post statusish updates regularly. Lots of links to interesting consumerismish articles, photos, movies, or whatever. Stimulating discussion. And I will be posting draft excerpts from my upcoming 100 Thing Challenge book (to be published by Harper Perennial) -- excerpts that anyone who cares to may praise, lambaste, or copyedit.

Thanks for joining in the fun. Dave


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